Comments on: Are you oversharing? https://henze-associates.com/blog/2015/05/03/cal/exhibitionism-communication-sharing-intimacy/ 'cause you know you're curious... Mon, 10 Aug 2020 05:03:08 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.1 By: Cal https://henze-associates.com/blog/2015/05/03/cal/exhibitionism-communication-sharing-intimacy/comment-page-1/#comment-24343 Tue, 12 May 2015 08:38:57 +0000 https://henze-associates.com/blog/?p=4338#comment-24343 Too true…

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By: Kathy https://henze-associates.com/blog/2015/05/03/cal/exhibitionism-communication-sharing-intimacy/comment-page-1/#comment-24339 Mon, 11 May 2015 12:59:38 +0000 https://henze-associates.com/blog/?p=4338#comment-24339 “No where to run to baby, no where to hide”..in other words, finding somewhere else may prove difficult… and I agree re internet/online “church” ..why bother physically going to church when you can just listen to a podcast etc. IMO, The bricks & mortar style of church is on it’s way out, much like the bricks & mortar retail….

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By: Cal https://henze-associates.com/blog/2015/05/03/cal/exhibitionism-communication-sharing-intimacy/comment-page-1/#comment-24338 Mon, 11 May 2015 09:12:59 +0000 https://henze-associates.com/blog/?p=4338#comment-24338 Hi Kathy,

Sadly, a functional grasp of community was lost in most of the North American institutional Church long ago.

Years ago, when the disintegration was finally noted, the first, knee jerk reaction of the Church was to try and build that sort of contrived community. They did so with pretty much the tactics you are describing.

It was the failure of those tactics that sparked the, so called, ” Seeker sensitive,” Church where no one would be subjected to that order of public pressure. Those Seeker Churches have gotten big — but, statistically, they have been repeatedly proven to be a subway station where people pass through either coming into Christianity or, mostly, on their way out of the institutional Church.

Apparently, the pendulum is now swinging back…

I get why it’s happening — the Seeker model has not delivered — but I doubt the old model is going to work better then the last time…

People really aren’t interested in either the Patriarchal controlling institution any more then they are interested in the detached Broadway musical institution. It never was the window dressing that was the problem — it was the institution.

It’s sad really. Fixing it all would be so simple — if the leaders of the institutional Church could just figure out that it’s the institution itself that is the problem, realize that the internet has permanently obliterated both the need for and the interest in the talking-head model, punch the rewind button back all the way to before the Emperor Constantine and finally admit that the only way to save the Church is to throw the institution itself under the bus.

Trouble is, the non-institutional early Church model has been repeatedly proclaimed a failure because, while it wonderfully works to spread the love of Christ, it never works to form a stable institution — the same ‘highly stable and successful’ institution that is currently killing the Church.

Irony…

Cal

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By: Kathy https://henze-associates.com/blog/2015/05/03/cal/exhibitionism-communication-sharing-intimacy/comment-page-1/#comment-24336 Sun, 10 May 2015 14:56:50 +0000 https://henze-associates.com/blog/?p=4338#comment-24336 Hi Cal, what do you think of this. Our church has this going on today, what I’m calling forced sharing: “It is good for us to reflect on how the resurrection life of Jesus has shaped us personally and as a congregation. We want to give space and time to hear from each other, two things: How have you seen God at work in your life? Where do you long to see God move? This could be personal, it could be interpersonal, and it could be global.”

That’s the format for today, along with communion, including participating in foot-washing. The whole thing makes our skin crawl. Good thing it’s Mother’s Day & we’re heading outta town to see family…excellent excuse..

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