• Truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth?
    Truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth?
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    PsychCentral

    Cheaters who confessed just part of their wrongdoing were also judged more harshly by others than cheaters who didn’t confess at all, according to five experiments involving 4,167 people from all over the United States.

    The research is published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology.

    “Confessing to only part of one’s transgressions is attractive to a lot of people because they expect the confession to be more believable and guilt-relieving than not confessing,” said lead author Eyal Pe’er, Ph.D.

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  • How to stop beating yourself.
    How to stop beating yourself.
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    Tiny Buddha

    For most of my career as a teenager I was preoccupied with being cool, with cultivating a counter-culture, bohemian persona (assuming clove cigarettes, On the Road, and a pile of mixed tapes constituted “bohemian”). Rolling my eyes at my mother was a near-constant affectation.

    I was certain that I knew it all; I had the rest of my life all figured out and I rejected anything that didn’t fit with my narrow understanding of the world.

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  • What really happens when men don’t talk?
    What really happens when men don’t talk?
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    Psych Central

    I suggest that one overlooked reason that men find themselves in the midst of an extramarital affair is that men don’t talk!

    * Thanks to their biology, neurophysiology, culture and psychology most men rarely express worries, emotions, sexual issues or physical concerns about themselves, to friends, family, or colleagues, much less to their partners.
    * As the show, ” Married Men Don’t Talk” suggests, men will talk about everything from kids to sports but they don’t discuss marital issues.
    * In their research on men who stopped seeking sex from their partners, Bob and Susan Berkowitz, report that 44% said they were furious, felt criticized and insignificant in their marriage; but would not or could not talk about it with their partners.

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  • False grace?
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    Phil Drysdale

    The simple formula to spotting all false movements:

    I know personally how hard it can be to spot these movements – I’ve been involved in all 3 at some point in my life to pretty serious degrees! I even preached some of this stuff!

    These are just what I believe to be 3 of the biggest false movements in the church, there are many, many more though.

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  • Four characteristics of a spiritual abuser
    Four characteristics of a spiritual abuser
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    Donald Miller

    A Christian leader who is manipulative will:

    – Never be truly vulnerable. They will never tell stories about their weaknesses. If they do, those stories will be about how they are too strong, too devout and too many other things that are more or less humble brags.

    – Always have the true answer, and the truth is truth because they said it. The truth is the Bible is complex, but a manipulator knows they can’t get you to submit if they don’t have ALL the answers. Certainly trained pastors have answers, but nobody has all the answers.

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  • Once and for all?
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    SermonCentral

    Confession to trusted friends and to God is healthy. It’s normal and natural to talk about your struggles with people who care about you. The indispensable truth to grasp, however, is that confession does not initiate cleansing in your life. We’ve already been cleansed “once for all” through the onetime blood sacrifice that needs no repeating.

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  • Let’s hear it for compassion – finally…
    Let’s hear it for compassion – finally…
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    Psychology Today: Scared Crooked

    There is only one problem: Scared Straight programs don’t work. Actually, it’s worse than that: They do more harm than good. Several well-designed studies have been conducted, in which at-risk youth were randomly assigned to take part in Scared Straight programs or to a control group that did not, and then all the kids were followed to see whether they got into trouble.

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  • How to lose a country and a world…
    How to lose a country and a world…
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    The best schools

    The students could not go from their vague discomfort to a rational ethical conclusion because they have never learned traditional philosophy of ethics. Therefore, their objections have no force and, for all that they sense injustice, they will likely do very little good in the world.

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