• Is this the most important sexual question you will ever ask?
    Is this the most important sexual question you will ever ask?
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    AlterNet

    For me, good means that you are in the moment with me, that you respect my desires as worthy, and that you pay attention when I express myself verbally and non-verbally. And I, of course, will make every effort to do the same for you.

    So what was the magic question? What did he ask that leapfrogged us from normal to special?

    “How do you get yourself off,” he asked, “when you’re all alone?” I get goosebumps just thinking about it.

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  • The real pain of an affair.
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    The Local

    She also exchanged intimate photographs with some of her correspondents, Le Figaro newspaper reported.

    In her defence at the divorce hearings, she argued that she had done so while in a state of depression.

    But the judges decided that her depression was not a factor in her visits to the website and last month ruled in favour of Bruno.

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  • Maybe you don’t have low sexual desire after all?
    Maybe you don’t have low sexual desire after all?
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    Psychology Today

    The human sexual response cycle is thought to have four stages:

    Stage 1: Desire, which is defined as having a sexy thought or sexual fantasy that often occurs out of the blue or in response to a trigger such as seeing an attractive person, smelling an aromatic perfume, or watching a hot movie. Desire then prompts us to become sexually active.

    Stage 2: Arousal is the excitement we feel, the physiological changes in our bodies once we’re physically stimulated.

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  • What correlates with sexual health?
    What correlates with sexual health?
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    Rodale News

    Researchers used data from online surveys after about 1,050 men and 2,056 women 18 to 60 years old answered questions regarding current and past vibrator use (with themselves or a partner) and sexual function. More than 52 percent of women said they had used a vibrator, with about a quarter of them have used one in the past month. Vibrator users scored highest on the sexual function questions, which included desire, arousal, lubrication, orgasm, pain, and overall function.

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  • For the sake of your marriage, TALK!!!
    For the sake of your marriage, TALK!!!
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    Huffington Post

    That distinction became very important in determining which relationships survived. At the end of five years, 43 percent of couples who had revealed the infidelity were divorced compared to 80 percent of the couples whose infidelity was kept secret.

    “The current results suggest that many revealed infidelity couples were able to sustain the gains made during treatment and preserve the integrity of the relationship,” the researchers explained.

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  • Cracks in the Biblical patriarchy movement
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    Daily Beast

    The scandal around Phillips is just the latest in a long line of ugly shocks to the far Christian right that threatens to destabilize and possibly capsize the community. As The Wire reported in early March, Bill Gothard, the leader of the Institute in Basic Life Principles, resigned his position in the wake of a series of accusations of alleged sexual abuse from dozens of women in the organization.

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  • Understanding the heart of feminine hypersexuality
    Understanding the heart of feminine hypersexuality
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    Psychology Today

    The new Lars von Trier film Nymphomaniac: Volume I is the confessional tale of Joe (Charlotte Gainsbourg), a traumatized, shame-filled, hypersexual woman. We first encounter her lying in an alley in a pool of her own blood. She is discovered there by Seligman (Stellan Skarsgård), a kindly man who takes her in and nurtures her with hot tea, a warm bed, and an empathetic set of ears. To him, Joe conveys her lifelong history of sexual acting out. What a lot of the people who see this film will likely wonder is: How realistic is this movie? Do women like Joe really exist?

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  • Healing for vaginismus
    Healing for vaginismus
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    News Wise

    “Ambivalence in expressing emotions indicates oneself dissatisfaction with the way one expresses emotions,” says Awada. “The more ambivalent you are, the less you are able to communicate your emotions satisfactorily, and the more you are likely to be uncomfortable with your partner.” For example, when angry individuals avoid talking so as not to be misunderstood, or express themselves more aggressively than they intended to, they are communicating ambivalently. In Awada’s study, these situations are associated with a more difficult adaptation to the pain in the couples. “In addition, the ambivalence of both partners is related to greater emotional distress and more sexual and relational difficulties in the couples,” says Awada.

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  • Probably the clearest description of feminine sexuality ever…
    Probably the clearest description of feminine sexuality ever…
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    Psychology Today

    Female desire, according to Meana, is activated when a woman feels overwhelmingly desired, not rationally considered. Female erotic literature, including all those shades of gray, is built on this fantasy. Sexual desire in this view does not work according to our expectations and social values. Desire seeks the path of desire, not the path of righteousness. It thrives not on social order but on its negation. This is one reason all religions and societies try to control, contain, limit and re-direct it.

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  • The power of compartmentalization…
    The power of compartmentalization…
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    NY Times

    A study called “Egalitarianism, Housework and Sexual Frequency in Marriage,” which appeared in The American Sociological Review last year, surprised many, precisely because it went against the logical assumption that as marriages improve by becoming more equal, the sex in these marriages will improve, too. Instead, it found that when men did certain kinds of chores around the house, couples had less sex.

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